Everyone knows getting divorced can be pretty costly. Some estimates are that a married couple spends about $10,000 each or $20,000 total in attorneys fees when divorcing. Divorce mediation is considerably less expensive, the estimate for that being about $2500.00. The main reason for the huge savings is that when you each hire an attorney to represent you each attorney must “zealously” defend your side. And trust me I know there are many times where that is precisely what is called for. That takes time, which is money when you hire an attorney. But there are instances where both sides do not want a war and just want to move on with their lives. Mediation is about resolving conflicts and finding a solution both sides can live with. This usually takes alot less time and therefore costs less money. In these times saving money is something we are all looking to do. And because divorce in and of itself is usually a financial setback for most people this is a very important factor.

Everyone is feeling the effects of our current economic downturn. Making the decision to divorce, or being told by your spouse they want a divorce is even more difficult and stressful during tough times. It can be frightening and anxiety provoking. When faced with a divorce most people go to an attorney. And in certain situations that is what is called for. But there is another way. Many couples want to avoid hiring an attorney but when they start to argue about issues they feel there is no other choice. That is where divorce mediation can help. A divorce or family mediator is someone who is impartial and helps both parties reach an agreement. In my case, I also happen to be a family therapist with sixteen years of experience helping couples and families. I bring that knowledge and experience to the table in the mediation process. Not only am I helping you come to resolution in a constructive way, I also take the long view in terms of what will help your particular family.

There is a better, more economical way to get divorced. Most people just don’t know they have another option.